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The Ultimate Betrayal
I am happy to debate this, but isn’t the ultimate betrayal the loss of ones own moral compass. The loss of the soul. The transaction, the...
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Jul 232 min read
We lost a Beautiful Matriarch
Last week, a dear member of our community decided she had had enough. She was tired, she was 97 and she decided to complete her circle of...
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Jun 243 min read


Milestones Quietly Observed
In the age of social media we don’t really quietly observe anything these days, do we? We live in a society that demands and requires ...
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Jun 32 min read


The Most Valiant Way to Complain is Create
This is a quote I ran across while reading Maria Popova’ s weekly publication titled Marginalian . I appreciate, honor and embrace the...
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May 132 min read
My Saffron Teacher
A few of years ago I decided I would plant 500 crocus saffron bulbs. I was so excited mainly because I was pretty certain that I had...
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Apr 72 min read


Another Dog Story
I lost Simba, my yellow lab when he was sixteen. He was a special dog. It took the right person to understand and exercise patience with...
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Mar 196 min read


Rules of Civility
Several years ago Krista Tippett, the host and creator of the program On Being started a brave and courageous series titled Civil...
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Feb 272 min read


A Sense of Place
I have been preoccupied by “place” over the past several weeks. My attitude about our sense of place is very subjective, but does have a...
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Jan 272 min read


A Return to Awe
I have been experiencing that dull interaction that one gets when routine isn’t interrupted by, what I would call al little shake up. It...
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Jan 162 min read


Stay the Course
Why does it seem to be getting more and more difficult to stay the true intended course of our missive? We are a full service restaurant...
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Jan 44 min read


Another Hamster Story
As a young child I had the privilege of being the steward and caretaker of a few hamsters. What I find shameful and embarrassing is that...
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Dec 31, 20242 min read


Do you believe in Santa?
I am strangely interested in stories about the belief in Santa and how the myth was dispelled. Most children find out from their cynical...
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Dec 18, 20242 min read


The Fragility of Being Human
We, more than any other species are more beholden to our erratic and ever changing neurochemistry. I have been trying to objectively...
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Dec 15, 20242 min read


Just Say Thank You!
Why do many of us have a difficult time receiving compliments? I am getting better at it, but I have a long way to go. I have to...
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Dec 5, 20242 min read


Don’t Take any Wooden Nickels
Or wear wooden shoes. Thanks to my father’s advice I never accepted any wooden nickels. Not an uncommon adage for my father’s...
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Nov 21, 20242 min read


Does it need to be said?
Does it need to be said by me? Does it need to be said now? The answer to those questions is generally No, No and No 99% of the time. I...
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Nov 18, 20243 min read


Our Strange Relationship
We, as a culture have a very strange and estranged relationship with death. We have a difficult time talking about it and it’s...
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Nov 6, 20243 min read


What Goes Around
My parents had 3 girls and a boy. I am the youngest. My brother is the second oldest. He is 10 years older than me. He was awful to me,...
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Oct 29, 20243 min read


Hey Hey Hey It’s Fat Albert!
Many of you may remember the cartoon Fat Albert and the Cosby Kids. It aired on Saturday morning in the early 70’s. I remember as a six...
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Oct 16, 20242 min read
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